Are you stressed about money? Family? Kids? Your job? You are not alone. In fact, 79 percent of Americans feel they experience higher than healthy levels of stress. Learn about stress to help gain control of it before it gains control of you!
Stress is a reaction to change. When the demands of life override the resources you have, you may become stressed. Stress is a formula of adding up:
|Life’s DEMANDS + the RESOURCES you have to manage the demands = your response and reaction to the stressor|
What Can You Do?
- Change the stressor.
- Change the way you react to the stressor.
- Review your resources.
- Practice stress-reducing behaviors.
Changing the Stressor
Many of us are prone to just live with stressful events, however in many cases there are stressors that can be avoided or eliminated.
Talk it out. What is the stressor? What can you do about it?
Avoid difficult people — focus on positive relationships.
Eliminate unnecessary commitments — say “no.”
Avoid multi-tasking — doing one thing at a time is better for you.
Avoid trying to control people or circumstances.
Changing Your Reaction to a Stressor
We are also able to change how we perceive and react to stressors, by putting a positive spin on a situation or seeing the sunny side of the situation.
- Practice seeing the bright side of things.
- See humor in tough situations.
- Develop an attitude of gratitude.
- Adjust your expectations.
|Dealing with stress
Review Your Resources
Take some time to think of the potential resources you can call upon to help you deal with the stress you are experiencing.
- Seek supportive people to help you
- Talk with family, friends, colleagues about ways to reduce the stress
- Get help from your faith community, government agencies and non-profits
There are a lot of specific behaviors you can undertake to reduce stress.
- Eat healthy foods.
- Get enough rest.
- Engage in physical activity (stretching, walking, dancing).
- Practice relaxation (slow intentional breathing, positive visualization).
- Learn to manage your anger.
- Simplify and reduce your to-do list.
- Practice forgiveness.
- Appreciate the positive — engage in positive self-talk.
- Find opportunities to help others and serve your community.
Publication date: March 1, 2009
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